We are surrounded by it! I’m not talking about loud music or crazy neighbors (although some of you out there might be surrounded by that as well) no, I’m talking about the noises of expectations. All those voices, faces and adds that constantly tries to tell us how to live our lives, what kind of careers we should have, how many kids, when the right time to settle down is, what the right kind of relationship should be, what beauty looks like, and it goes on and on and on.
I used to listen to that noise when I was younger. Not only did I listen, but I took hell a lot of mental notes as well to try to map out how to make the perfect life for myself.
It wasn’t until I realized that the noise I was hearing was the product of what would make everyone else satisfied, but it wouldn’t make me happy that things started to change. Deep down I knew that I didn’t really want a typical lifestyle or a typical relationship, but my own voices had been drowned out by the constant noise of societies expectations. As soon as I stopped focusing on their voices and started to listen to my own, that’s when I fell in love with the silence.
That’s when I really started to love being in my own company, and found joy in mapping out the life that I really did want!
I started with being grateful for the things in my life that I already had. The things that are so easy to overlook when we’re always looking for something bigger or better.
I took time to just be present with myself and my own thoughts. I wrote, a lot. Lists and thoughts and dreams. Anything that would come to mind, I would put down on that paper or screen. That made it easier to sort out the noises that were still creeping in from time to time and throw those away.
Another great thing that happened was that the more I got other’s voices to leave my mind alone, the more I trusted my own inner voices. My gut feelings made more sense, and it is usually right.
It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the noise that is all around us, and so very hard to get rid of it. It’s constant work, but it is worth it.
So here’s me, one still learning how to find my very own path in this crazy world, giving you a friendly reminder to listen to the quiet. Find the things that make you happy, not everyone else, and then do THAT! Take time to be surrounded by silence. Meditate. Put your thoughts down and see where they take you.
I know I’ve said this a million times already, but I’m going to say it again:
There’s no one else quite like you, so don’t take away the chance for the world to experience the wonders that you can do!
4 thoughts on “The World is Filled With Noise!”
Absolutely agree with this!
While I’ve been more social the past few months than I’ve ever been in my adult life, I’ve also grown to really love my alone time more. It’s allowed me to really sit with myself and get in touch with what’s important for me.
Alone time is so very important ☺️ I’m glad to hear that you enjoy your alone time as well ☺️